You’ve lost the spark for one another.
How did we get here? You remember when you felt great about your relationship, and the two of you were on the same team.
But lately, you’re just not satisfied. Frustration and competition have replaced all fun and passion you used to share.
You want so badly to get back on the same page – to reconnect and stay connected. But life’s distractions keep getting in the way.
Love hurts so bad.
It’s hard to pinpoint exactly when your relationship went from full of love to full of pain.
You keep believing that love will win out – that one day, you’ll both wake up, see how much you’re hurting each other, and return to the way it was in the beginning.
But days pass, then weeks and months. And it is not getting better – in fact, you feel less and less safe. A bruise here. A bruise there. To the heart. Perhaps the body. How can something that started off so good cause so much devastation to your soul?
Your relationship needs a life preserver. Quick!
Build a love that is better than before.
Don’t lose hope yet. Your connection can be healed and strengthened.
Using proven strategies developed by the renowned Gottman Institute, I can help you salvage your friendship, increase appreciation and affection, improve communication, deepen intimacy, and create a relationship built on trust and commitment.
We can eliminate the toxicity of criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and withholding attention or affection, and move your relationship out of the danger zone. Abuse can turn into honor and respect.
Let’s get you back on the same team again. A team that is safer, more loving, and more satisfying than before.